The place of sex in marriage Pt2

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Having dealt with sex in marriage in terms of the roles sex plays in marriage. In this last and concluding part of this article I want articulate strategies that couples can employ to improve their marriage and also give a few tips on how to spice up your dull sex life so your spouse can be happy and excited again.

Let me remind you that the task of reviving a robust sexual activity in your marriage is not a solo effort; it is cooperation between the partners. I believe very strongly that some if not all the tips you will receive from this article will go a long way to assisting you achieve the long sort for excitement back to your marriage. Nonetheless; let me say here that it is you the husband that have more role to play in this delicate exercise; therefore most of the tips I will point to the man more than the woman.

I. Improve on the “outside bedroom” activity with your wife. By experience I have discovered that the atmosphere that couples experience in their bedroom is a direct reflection of the activities that transpired outside of the bedroom. Sir, please all that macho stuff and come to the level of your wife. Put her in the mood; be nice to her. Speak nice and sexy words to her; create an atmosphere of joy and happiness in your home and you won’t need to pressure your wife into love-making in your bedroom.

II. Enhanced body contact before bedtime is a great tonic to getting your wife in the mood love-making. A man respond by what he sees in his wife and women are experts at revealing so much to their husbands before bedtime; therefore, you have to reciprocate by touching your wife. Find every reason both genuine and flimsy to pat her especially those spots that you know easily get your wife in the mood.

III. Buy sexuality and relationship magazines that offer useful tips and information for your partner. Knowledge gained from such information source have been known to improve the sexual lives of couples.

IV. Reassure your wife of your unalloyed love for her. A woman by creation wants to be reassured by her husband of his love for her. If you can afford it; tell at least once a day of your love for her. You can do this in so many ways:

  • Buy gifts for her

  • Help her with household chores

  • Find time to chat with her

  • During discussion respect some of her opinions

  • Take her to special places like the movies, eateries and the likes.

  • Prepare special surprises for her on special occasions like her birth day,

    your marriage anniversary, mother’s day.

    Tips on how to spice up your dull sex life

  • Practice different sex style.

  • Don’t limit sex to only your bedroom, any place in your house can do.

  • Woman, please package yourself neatly and sexily.

  • Form the habit of sitting close to each other.

  • Let there be an enhanced foreplay before action.

  • Get yourself in the mood especially mentally.

  • Be patient with your partner.

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